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Surprise me!

I am still new to the poly lifestyle and still feel strange calling it a lifestyle. In fact, I don’t want to be labeled anything. I’ll be Irish, okay. I’ll be Jewish, okay. Heck, I’ll be a redhead, sure. But to stick me with a label of some sort that people may forever identify me as “being” when it can be more complicated than that or more fluid than that or none of their business…I’m not real keen on that.

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Let’s Begin in the Middle

I have dated four men that are in married, committed relationships. The first was… well, a mess and not to be considered poly. The second was brief and not worth mentioning other than it being my introduction to “polyamory”. The third took my breath away and that is where I will begin. In the middle.